If you are looking for love online, a great profile is the key. Of course you need compelling photos, but those who are looking for a real relationship will look beyond a pretty face to find out what you are about. You are on Shaadee.pk for a purpose, right? So you need to make sure you have the right kind of information in your matrimonial profile.
A generic profile that doesn’t say much or says the wrong things will be overlooked by the very people you truly hope to connect with. Follow these crucial tips to make sure you are attracting the right people online:
Tell The Right Story:
Your matrimonial profile tells a story. It shouldn’t be a novel (consider this a bonus tip!), but a short story that captures your personality. It might tell the story of an athletic, ambitious world traveler, or a geeky, sincere introvert. Or it could tell the story of a bitter, demanding perfectionist. Review your profile, photos and text together and ask yourself: Who am I showing up as? What story am I telling of my life?
It’s a bad idea to start a relationship with a lie. You rather be honest! You may not be prince charming or a princess but there are people who appreciate honesty. You never know, they might end up liking you for the kind of person you are. Avoid uploading someone else’s picture on your matrimonial profile. People need to get what they saw on your profile when they meet you. If you misrepresent yourself by uploading an old photo or someone else’s photo, it just ends there. S/he wouldn’t want to meet you again. Also, do not hide red flags like a divorce or children in your profile. Potential matches will find out at some point.
Be a Bit Humorous:
We know it’s a matrimonial profile, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be witty. A profile with some humor in it is tough for people to resist. So, if you’re witty show it in your profile — but don’t force the jokes please!
Check Your Spelling And Grammar:
Since we’re talking about writing a matrimonial profile, I have to mention spelling and grammar. There is a lot of bad spelling and grammar out there. And there are a lot of online matrimonial profiles that list spelling mistakes and bad grammar as a pet peeve. And some of those same people have spelling mistakes and bad grammar in their profiles!
The thoughtfulness and care you put into your profile will show and be appreciated by others. So put in some effort into uploading an attractive profile!