What if your wife is all cool with you and complain nothing and say thanks on every little effort you make toward winning her heart? How would you feel? This is unfathomable if you are still angry and bad tempered toward her. The above stamen neither a dream or any fabrication nor a myth, it is a fact. One can have this situation if some of the statements and actions listed below be avoided. Save your marriage because the shadi match things are way too hard to be made and established again.
What he/she needs, you don’t provide no matter you have brought the whole other world to him/her
There are different set of needs in human being in which emotional, physical, financial, mental, spiritual and social are the primary. In case of wives emotional needs are the most essential than others regarding meeting them. If you are trying to fulfill her financial needs and you think by meeting financial needs only you have done enough for the month without bothering to touch the emotional one than you have done nothing and you can’t be in her good books. You have blew all out of proportion without sensing the needs of your spouse. On the other hand, in case of husband, if you are merely focusing on emotional needs without bothering the other then you are going wrong around the road. Focusing on one and putting rest on the back burner will not serve the purpose which will end up you listening ungrateful comments that breeds contempt. Balance is the most required key in dealing with the needs and demands of your spouse to avoid miss-conduct and miss-understanding.
Blame game-‘it’s just because of you’ put your partner off
No matter how much you are caring for your spouse but when you ignite on little miss happenings and blame on your partner ‘’you have done it or just because of you I am not in a condition to get the desired thing and blah blah!” kind of statements put your partner off and wipe off all your efforts and investments in winning her/his heart. The very situation leads toward ungratefulness and thanklessness.
Expectations breeds’ contempt
Whenever you consider that what efforts your husband and wife investing in you are the obligation and you deserve to be treated like the way and if they don’t do such then it is making you stand miserable at the end, then you are considering it wrong. Your husband or your wife has some rights on you but if they really fulfill their duties then you should be thankful to them. Because there could be a chance that he/she don’t fulfill duty and let you suffer.
Shaadee.pk advised you to avoid the common mistakes listed above to save your life partner from getting hurt by your uncouth behavior