Behave with your young ones in a way in which you want the future parents to do

Child is a part of mother’s body. The early socialization start from her lap. If you a baby girl or baby boy, treat them wisely under close observation because you are going to produce future husband, wife and mother and father. Inculcate in them what is beneficial for the humanity and for the family. This is how as a family you are socializing your children for the future course of temporal affairs. What you sow, so shall you reap is not only a phrase, it is an incontrovertible evidence that implies on the family socialization process.

Train them as a valuable citizen for the future course

Being mother, women has the core responsibility to train her children. Under the rubric of love, one can spoil the future citizen, there is a need to design some strict rules and then make them comply with it. They are not just your children that your raise with love but future generation of the society. Raising up the next generation is a big responsibility. We’ll never know the answers to everything nor do we need to. There’s a place for trusting God through the unknowns. However, I believe we can attempt to live wisely, prudently, and with common sense in a way that blesses our families and others while enabling us to reach out to the broken and lost in the world. If your own life is a big mess you simply won’t be able to do as much for others as you’d like. You won’t have the mental or emotional capacity, if stayed careless even after being mother or father.

Instill humanistic values in them

There is a need to think that what kind of generation we are raising now. Love is the most important quality with which a human being is endowed from birth. Love is interrelated to all other values. When love is combined with discernment from our ‘conscience’, or ‘the inner self’, it is Truth. The Absolute Truth is changeless throughout space and time. Basically, this Truth resides within ourselves and we call it by different names – conscience, ‘inner self’. It is also referred to as the creative spark or intelligence within ourselves.

Emotional adjustments

Various studies have charted the emotional behavioral patterns of adults to the problems of emotional adjustments in early years. For example, illustrated a natural progression in empathy from infancy onward. As early as the age of two, children begin to differentiate between their own feelings and those of others. It is increasingly recognized that some teaching of social and emotional skills should ideally start in pre-school years as these years are marked by development of “social emotions” such as feelings of insecurity, envy, pride, confidence and empathy. But, most importantly, it calls the primary duty of parents to instill such emotions in him for the better world in future.

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