Emotions are the savior of relationship; Hearts not the Brain

Emotions are the savior of relationship; Hearts not the Brain

Marriages (shaadi) have no fertile grounds to stand on. They are fragile. They are established on moral and emotional foundations. If not watered with care, love and compassion and only argued with rationality, it can die of cold death. Being passionate is not a bad state to stay in, especially when you are in a relationship. Usually, women are the target of mockery for being emotional, but in the real sense, it is because of women emotions that the universe is stable. If you extract emotions from the substance of the universe, then leftover is just logic that is non-conducive for humans to live.

To save a relationship, one of the parties must avoid rational, logical questioning and argument. Some of the tips are listed below, which can minimize the estranged relationship between the two.

No Argument:

Naturally, everyone has the instinct to be liked and not to be crossed argued. It is not always good, but no argument or minor argument is the key to success in a relationship. One must understand that only an emotional solution can win you the consent of your partner.

Anger vs Smile:

Anger is a natural phenomenon. Anger must not be answered with anger because it only escalates the tension. Hot should be stroke with cold to cancel the effects and make the element neutral. The same theory could be applied to couples and anger, and tension can be answered with emotional tools such as a smile or an attitude of compassion and sympathy.

Be Emotional:

You must wear a bit of an emotional mood all the time to avoid the strength of severe conflicts between you two. Two people with different opinion can’t stay all the time happily. It is most likely that with time, the relationship goes silent, more profound and colder. Only emotions can save your relation from going into deep silence.

Asian culture is already considered traditional constructed on the premises of emotions. That is why a rate to hold relation longer is higher in South Asia than in Europe. In Pakistan, Rishtay is sacred and are given importance on moral grounds. You also practice this hypothesis and live a happy life.

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